If you’re an actor, you are a loser. But hold your head up high! You have a great following!
Halle Berry
Halle Berry and her amazing success. What most might not know are all of the hardships she went through growing up. She lost her father through abandonment of lost respect going through racism and lived in a shelter for a time when she came to New York City, Halle has faced many loses.
She looks back on it now and says that she did what she had to do; it did not deter her from going for her dream and ultimately being the first black woman to win the Oscar for Best Actress in 2002. She had to lose in order to win.
MARK RUFFALO
The Hulk didn’t get noticed until his late 20’s as an actor, and his struggles stemmed from the time he was a child.
Suffering from both ADD and dyslexia in his younger years later made studying lines and scripts extremely difficult.
Yet somehow, he was able to focus and memorize lines for plays and movies to eventually make it onto the big screen, which is a true testament to his determination and stamina. He lost himself by immersing himself in study.
If that wasn’t tough enough, in 2002 it was discovered that he had a brain tumor, which lucky for him was benign, but the removal of the tumor left him suffering from facial paralysis. This loss gave him time to recover and through therapy regained his and eventually, a long-standing career as an actor in over 40 films.
His story is moving and inspiring and should demonstrate to everyone that even physical setbacks do not have to keep you from following your dreams.
LAURA DERN
Though she’s known for her 4 Golden Globe Awards, as an Alumni of the Lee Strasberg Institute, a famous acting school in NYC, and for her smashing roles in Wild at Heart, Jurassic Park and more recently the series Big Little Lies, Laura Dern has suffered traumatic experiences that she overcame to get where she is today.
At the mere age of only 14, Laura was sexually assaulted, and for years she admits that she blamed herself and made excuses for her abuser’s behavior, without realizing the toll it took on her both physically and mentally.
She did not allow this to lose her aspirations to become an actress, and worked through it and other obstacles, including the famous 1997 “The Puppy Episode” of the television series Ellen, which received so much backlash that it kept Laura from working for a year afterward.
Nonetheless, she regained her losses, making way back, working hard in spite of those difficulties, and has become one amazing actress and inspiration to all.
STEVE HARVEY
Another famous actor and now host of The Steve Harvey Show who struggled with homelessness in his younger years was Steve Harvey.
He actually lived in his car for not 1, not 2…. but 3 years!
He lost his marriage fell apart and he rarely saw his children, hit rock bottom with his career and was forced to sleep in his car to get by.
He washed in sinks and even stole gas when he had to get to his gigs!
He says that it was a very painful time of loss in his life before he was able to find success as a comedian.
He kept going, and kept at it, through all of those difficult nights.
Even now as much as he has achieved and how well he is doing, Steve still works constantly, day in and day out, because he never wants to be homeless again and wants to ensure that.
We can learn a lot from that kind of perseverance. Three years not having a place to live would take its toll on so many of us; it’s amazing that Steve had the audacity to keep pushing himself forward and become such a success. His losses are an inspiration to all of us.
JIM CARREY
Jim Carrey is famous for his comedic nature and bringing life to many roles in movies like The Mask, Ace Ventura: Pet Detective, Bruce Almighty, and The Truman Show. but these successes required many losses.
Jim said he was a quiet kid who had no friends and kept to himself because his family was living in such poverty.
He was working full shifts as a teenager and also going to school full time, which was exhausting and kept him from having much of a childhood.
At one point, his family was even homeless, living in tents in his elder sister’s backyard.
Working as a comedian, getting booed off stages and not able to land high-profile gigs, and even his auditions for Saturday Night Live left him getting rejected multiple times.
Jim was able to overcome these losses these obstacles in life, because his calling was making people laugh, and he constantly told himself affirmations and visualized that he was a great actor, that people wanted to work with him.
Repeating phrases like that over and over to himself in between gigs and jobs gave him the encouragement he needed.
He even wrote a check to himself for $10 Million for acting services and carried it in his wallet to later award himself on his success.
Those self-proclamations helped him to stay determined in his goals and carry out his dreams to make it in Hollywood, as he told Oprah, and we could all benefit from encouraging ourselves that we are good enough and strong enough to make our own destiny in life.
As you can see, all five of these actors never gave up on their dreams.
It’s easy to be beaten down, rejected and succumb to thoughts of failure and loss.
However, all of these actors did not lose their determination and pushed through the hardships.
Being homeless, having no money, imposter syndrome and physical challenges be reasons enough to quit for the average Joe or Josephine.
Your dreams require LOSS sacrifice, difficult times, hard work and constant affirmations.
So, keep going and striving for what you want, and if you don’t give up.
YOU may Lose but if you keep moving you cannot fail.
